~THEN READ THIS> What We're NOT About?~

What we're not about is arguing with porn and sex industry proponents as well as those into kink and other radical sexual habits. That's for you. Those things don't necessarily feed us in the right way which is why we end up here or elsewhere frustrated, searching for something that will validate our concerns emanating from deep within our instincts. We honestly don't want to hear from you as it's not hard to hear or read about the views of extreme sexuality or the promotion of promiscuity in the guise of empowerment, in our every day lives. What this place is, is a sanctuary for those of us wanting to learn about and connect with a more naturalistic perspective of sexuality and relationships, free from peer and social pressure that often comes with the sex lib/sex industry movements both of the 70's and 00's. We believe that those movements, while some intentions may have been good…ended up causing more confusion for some of us, leading many down the wrong path. It continues today with the younger generations who are growing up on this culture of hypersexuality. For US, we're looking for something different, a little more intimacy, a lot more respect both from others and ourselves and a less sexuality sold to US, that is rife with issues such as violence and perversion. What we're not about is pressing people to have or NOT to have sex, to feel bad or not bad about being 'old-fashioned' and 'romantic' about their approach to sexuality and love; Nor are we about when and how often to have sex but to learn about ourselves, our bodies, each other and what our needs and limitations are without the pressures of society, our parents, the sex industry, sex radicals or the church telling them what, when, with whom to have sex. We're not entirely about influencing people's preferences but encouraging them to listen to themselves above all else after learning more about sex and their bodies. We don't like being sold on ideas and propaganda about the sex industry and kink. Our culture has become obsessed about sex in a distorted manner that is doing more harm than good for many, especially the younger generations. So for US, we are seeking something healthy, healing and loving as well as FUN and yet safe but without the garbage of societies neurosis and obsessive proclivities; But really, finding out OUR OWN perspective and following OUR OWN instincts regardless of the chaos of the outside world. Cheers!